Sermon: Disarming the Father of Lies

We live in a world that has turned Satan into a cartoon—a red devil with a pitchfork, more punchline than threat. But beneath that caricature lies something more dangerous: a deceiver who thrives in our distractions, a strategist whose greatest weapon is subtle distortion.

As Kevin Spacey’s character in The Usual Suspects famously said, “The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn’t exist.”

The Danger of Dismissal

C.S. Lewis warned there are two equal and opposite errors when it comes to the devil: disbelieving in him entirely, or becoming obsessed with his power. Both are traps. One leaves us blind to real evil. The other attributes every flat tire and head cold to demonic attack and gives Satan more power than he has.

But Scripture grounds us: the devil is real, but he is not equal to God. He’s not omnipotent, omniscient, or omnipresent. He is limited, a creature, and his end is already been determined (Job 1–2, Revelation 20:10).

What he is, though, is a liar.

Jesus called him the “father of lies” (John 8:44). Deception is his native tongue.

Lies That Feel Like Truth

The enemy doesn’t attack with absurdity. He works with half-truths, whispered suggestions, twisted perceptions. As John Mark Comer puts it: “Deceptive ideas (the Devil) that play to our disordered desires (the Flesh) that are normalized in a sinful society (the World).”

It’s a three-part strategy:

  • The Idea: A lie that sounds plausible.
  • The Desire: Something already disordered in us.
  • The Normalization: A culture that affirms and reinforces it.

Over time, our broken desires become habits. Our habits become culture. And eventually, we stop questioning the lies because they sound normal.

They become lies that sound… true:

  • “You’ll never be enough.”
  • “You have to earn love.”
  • “You’re too broken to be used by God.”
  • “If people really knew you, they’d walk away.”

The most dangerous lies are the ones we think we came up with on our own. When reality is that these are seeds implanted by the father of lies seeking to disrupt and distort our relationships.

Where Lies Begin

Humans are wired to trust. But when trust is broken—by a parent, a leader, a spouse—a seed of doubt is planted. That’s the devil’s wedge: “Did God really say…?” (Genesis 3:1)

It’s not a declaration. It’s a suggestion. Doubt. Suspicion. Distance.

From there, the lies cascade:

  • “You’re on your own.”
  • “Don’t tell them the whole truth.”
  • “They wouldn’t understand anyway.”

This isn’t overt rebellion—it’s subtle isolation. Satan doesn’t force disobedience. He invites distrust.

Disarming the Lies

So what do we do?

Peter writes: “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion… Resist him, standing firm in the faith…” (1 Peter 5:8–9)

Here’s how:

1. Name the Lie.
Ask: Is this thought true or false? Is it rooted in God’s Word or in fear, shame, or self-protection?

2. Replace It with Truth.
Philippians 4:8 gives the test: Is it true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, praiseworthy? Think on these things.

3. Reframe the Narrative.
As Romans 12:2 reminds us, transformation begins by renewing the mind. That means challenging not just what we do, but how we think.

4. Choose Community over Isolation.
Satan thrives in silence and secrecy. God heals through confession and connection.

Satan’s ToolsGod’s Response
LiesTruth (John 17:17)
DarknessLight (1 John 1:5–7)
IsolationCommunity (Hebrews 10:24–25)
JustifyingConfessing (1 John 1:9)
ShameForgiveness (Romans 8:1)

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